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His Mother Was Mad
I was talking to my father and mentioned I had run
into Jacob.
Jacob was a year older than me in high school. He
hung out with mutual friends of mine. He was tall and
thin. He was sweetly goofy. He went off to an
in-state college. A year later I attended college in
another state then didn't really return for several
years. I lost touch with those friends and didn't
know what had become of him.
About 5 or 6 years ago a tall, handsome man came up to
me. It was the beginning of the work day and when he
said my name, I recognized the voice immediately.
Jacob was living in the same town as me, married to a
school teacher. They had several children. While he
was clearly a man, and not a teenager, his sweet
goofiness was still there.
For several years our early morning routine meant we
crossed paths and we would talk about people from high
school, our kids' exploits, work, my pregnancy and his
wife's a year later. Then his hours changed and we
stopped seeing each other.
I told my dad that I ran into Jacob and his kids over
the holidays. It was the first time I had seen his
since the spring.
"His mother was so pissed when you turned him down for
a date" was my father's reply.
"Whaaaaaaaa?" was my inarticulate response.
I don't think I had ever met Jacob's mother. I
wouldn't know her if she came up to me. I knew that
she didn't run in the same circles as my parents. It
was simply beyond comprehension that my father would
have a conversation with Jacob's mother.
"She called me after Jacob had called to ask you out"
he explained. "You just broke his heart and she
called me to complain."
My father had never, ever told me this.
Worse. I don't remember the phone call from Jacob
asking me out. It wasn't like I was getting these
calls with any frequency. In fact almost never. I
would think this type of call would be memorable to an
infrequent high school dater like me.
So after all these year, does Jacob remember calling
me?
And does he know his mother called my father?
Saturday, January 19, 2008
His Mother Was Mad!
Posted by Brillig at 12:04 PM
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7 comments:
Insane!!! I wonder if he had any idea, or if he'd die of shock the way you did if he'd found out. Yikes!!! Be glad you didn't marry into that mother-in-law situation!!!
I agree with Brillig - he sounds like a nice enough guy, but living with that mother-in-law would be AWFUL!
That's crazy!
He sounds like a sweetheart - but his Mom sounds scary!
Truly sounds odd. I wonder if it was a case of mistaken identity. Once I had a sister of a fellow I knew confront me in a store--saying all sorts of really nasty things. It was based on my hurting her brother's feelings.
I was young, fairly tender-hearted, BUT I did have a red-head's disposition--so I marched off to this fellow and confronted him, asking him why he'd tell his sister a pack of lies about me.
Turns out it was another girl, and his sister, not knowing either one of us, had fixated what her brother said with the red-head she thought he was talking about.
Not saying that's what happened here--but it's a possibility if his mother didn't know your parents and had never met you, she might have got her son's report wrong.
Do you think it's worth asking him now? Probably not, eh?
So if he asked you out today (and there were no consequences and no one knew, not even his mother) would you say yes?
Hmmmm..... if I didn't have the life I have now? Yes. But only if I was not in a committed relationship. I like my life too much...
You should be a politician (if you're not already). You were able to answer yes and no in the same sentence. That takes talent. So the real question (which requires yes OR no) is whether you have feelings for him?
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